Becoming a single mom.

It’s a real scary thought. Right now I’m very dependent on my husband, and I think that is why I am afraid to step away. I’m just overall fucking nervous too. 1. I honestly wish we could work things out. But 2. I just can’t keep crying everyday hoping something changes. But I’m scared to leave.. and the guilt. The guilt of taking the kids with me. The guilt of the kids missing their dad… then I think about what if I completely regret leaving and then it’s too late. *crying*

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I literally have no one to cry and vent to about the thought of leaving. If I say anything to my mom or sister then it’s really no turning around.. all my friends have heard this before and now I don’t have friends. This sucks.

You can talk to me but coming from someone who’s left Leave for ur mental health and kids They aren’t benefiting from you being miserable and if u stay for ten you’re teaching them what’s ok to put up with Happy mom is a healthy mom

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This is me I am going through the same and I have 5 year and 3 month old

One thing I know is you ARE strong enough to do this on your own. You’re gonna be surprised when it’s actually much easier to do the things you already probably do on your own.. but with nobody to make you feel less.. if that makes sense. A burden will be lifted .

I can relate to feeling like theres no one to talk to, feel free to reach out to me to talk. Single mother as of March to a 2.5 year old. There are still hard days but i know things will get better.

You can message me if you want, I nearly left my husband last year and I was feeling the same way…. We don’t have kids yet but that has been a huge thing I have been thinking about recently and I could use a fresh set of ears too❤️

How old is ur kid? Maybe wait until they go to school so u can work and have some back up. For now either try to fix the relationship if it doesn’t fix by when ur baby goes to preK then at least u tried ur best . U can also give urself a timeframe to fix ur relationship by . If nothing got better by that timeframe then u at least have been preparing urself mentally. I let my relationship issues affect me real bad . I don’t eat I don’t sleep I’m basically bed sick … this has affected me so bad that now I’m training my brain to control my emotions and not cry over him. I had to speak up and realease so much tension it was making me have anxiety.. speaking out is releasing stress u must speak out but in a mature way. If he is not able to change then leave

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