Yeah, they should ask every time! So what did they do then just say we are going to brunch and not even ask you? Fuck that don't be a mug say something they aren't your kids
@Becky yeah that's exactly what happened I might say something this time or if it happens again...I ask them every single time.. and I say thank you.. every time they watch my kid...I doubt imma get a thank you today
Yeah that's bad they're just using you, I'd never leave my child with anyone without asking that so bloody rude
Tell them you have somewhere to be and see what their alternative plan was