Friends post baby…

I’ve had one friend make the effort to see me once when I went home to visit family. My daughter is 6 months today

Umm, I used to have thousands of friend and multiple soulmates, but most likely gone except who's in the same boat with me. Basically whoever don't have baby wants push me from their single life (they got scared for doing accidental baby sitting or whatso) , so I'm just learning how to give up and not getting hurt from relationship 😂 Well it's hard, I'm struggling and depressed but I think this is a kinda stage that I must step on ..

Yes it has been affected, but I was expecting it so I guess I haven’t found it so difficult. I knew I wasn’t going to be able to do a lot of the social events out and about that I used to. My partner and I do try to take it in turns to look after little one to let the other one go out and see friends though. We don’t do it as much as we should but it’s better than nothing and definitely worth it!

Yes, friends wanted to come and see the baby and now that's done most aren't really interested in seeing me anymore...unless they are waiting for baby cuddles as I didn't let that happen to begin with. I don't have a lot of friends so I envisage keeping those who already have kids as we can do stuff with them there and potentially losing the others. It's sad and a difficult part of the change to who I am now but the baby does fill a lot of my time and thoughts too!