Feeling trapped

Anyone else get the feel that there partner just wants them to be a mum nothing more? I enjoy watching football ( what a game tonight nearly had a heart attack) I want to go to the pub with my sister next Saturday to watch the next game I asked my partner to come and he said no, he also doesn't want me going... I don't have any friends and all I do is sit in doors all day looking after our 9 month old son. I just want to go out and feel like my 23 year old self but my partner isn't allowing it...

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controllive, id leave lol.

It's not that easy we have a house together and I'm not working... so I can't afford life with out him which is sad.

I'll probably go regardless but it's not the point.. it's the fact he thinks he can dictate My life..

i get what u mean, i had to leave my babys dad i have no income but was best decision in the end

Life is way too short to be with a man who wants to control you. It’s also not a good thing for your child to see either as will impact how they view relationships. There are plenty of good men out there.

What’s his reasoning? That does sound very controlling and manipulative. He’s not your dad, you don’t need his permission to go out. Give him your son and tell him what you’re doing, don’t ask. Men like that make my blood boil. My partner couldn’t stop me if he tried and I wouldn’t be with him if he behaved like that.

This sounds really controlling and not okay. Why don’t you have friends? Does he also make that difficult? Honestly do you want to be with someone who tries to control you? I would look into emotional abuse, that might be extreme but good to know the warning signs. Hope you are okay ❤️

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