Do you feel trapped in your life ?
I feel like becoming a Mum has made it so I have no time for me or my husband.
My child has mild disabilities our family lives 5 hours away by flight .
Every time I want to hire help my husband freaks out that the house is a disaster and then it’s not worth having the help because I had to spend all day cleaning.
I would love to get divorced but financially it doesn’t make sense with our child’s extra needs due to disability
Any advice is appreciated!!
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My husband makes all the money and has tantrums if the house is a mess and cancels the sitter if the house isn’t how he wants before a sitter comes over I had to give up my career to take our child to all the therapy appointments If I divorce my husband he will get remarried immediately to someone he doesn’t love just to have child care for our child. Yes he has told me this when I have asked him to try to learn how to take care of our child independently… my child is 3 and Dad has never bathed our child alone ever… on 2x with help
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Do what makes you happy. Life is too short to be stuck in a relationship you don't want to be in. On the other hand, having children is difficult. Having a child with special needs is even tougher. If you need help get the extra help, you need to have time for yourself. You have to prioritize your health and needs as well. If you are doing well, your kids are good, and your home is good.