How did you get through multiple miscarriages?

Never never, lose hope 🤍🌈 sending lots of love, so sorry you’re going through this xx

I'm so overtired and sad...and here in the Netherlands I don't feel assisted and helped enough by doctors. They don't run the tests and is always a fight to ask to have some checks done

I’m so incredibly sorry for your losses💔😢 I’ve had 4 miscarriages (1 was missed) and it was extremely hard to have hope again. My last one was just months full of horrible things so I honestly didn’t know if I was going to make it through. I ended up talking to a therapist for a little bit which honestly didn’t help much. I tend to keep my feelings bottled up inside, but I decided to just say how I’m feeling and talk about it with my family and my husband. Not staying silent is what helped me the most and coming on here seeing I wasn’t alone. Once I was feeling a bit better I started doing aqua fit with my mom which was nice because it was an hour out of the day where my mind was occupied and I didn’t feel sad. Keeping myself busy was a big help too because otherwise I would have just laid in bed depressed 24/7. You should try and push to have testing done. I had it done and everything came back normal, but a fertility doctor put me and my husband on certain supplements and meds

Which resulted in me finally being able to make it to the second trimester. It’s so frustrating when your body isn’t doing what it’s meant to do. At least with the testing I knew it’s not genetics and my insides are working like they should and we wouldn’t of had the opportunity to be put on supportive medication if we didn’t get referred to the specialist. Don’t forget to let yourself feel and cry when you need to and do what’s best for you❤️

Thanks Sarah for sharing your experience. Unfortunately here in the Netherlands doctors don't do a lot of prevention and are always reluctant in making tests. I had to fight and I have made some, will get feedback at the end of the month. But honestly I've lost trust in them and still I don't know if they're doing all the checks. Also, I had a healthy pregnancy already so they just say "now it's bad luck". If I don't get answers I'll go to Italy and will see a specialist there

@Gaia that’s so terrible I’m so sorry there’s no support😢 I’m in Canada and it’s protocol to be referred to a specialist once you’ve had 3 miscarriages in a row. I hope you can get the help you need! In the meantime just focus on letting yourself heal❤️

Thanks Sarah ☺️

Ive had 1 missed miscarriage, 2 miscarriages and 6 chemicals. The mmc was the most horrific, my body didn’t respond to surgery or medication which meant I was continuously miscarrying for 3 months and in incredible pain. And of course an emotional mess. I’m young, and because of this the doctors have refused to do investigation until now - I know the advice is hit and miss but I have found TikTok super useful. There’s so many women and doctors on there who talk about different supplements, medicines and their experiences (obviously do your own research), but info I found on there has helped myself and I my partner. I try to keep busy but sometimes I need to be in a sad hole and scrolling listening to other people talk about the same experience does help to get out the emotions

Thanks for sharing @Jessica ..The MMC is an awful experience and honestly I did one the tablets to induce the miscarriage and it ended up in a big trauma, very painful and I almost lost consciousness due to the blood loss, and eventually I had to undergo a curettage anyway. I wouldn't advise that in 2024 at all, I find it inhuman! I totally get you when you talk abou the "sad hole". I feel & hug you 🤗