Pick up and go 🚗💨

I really wish I could just pick up and go! Like pack up my shi* and move away. It's just me and my baby and my 1 income, so idk how realistic that would be for me to do. I'm just tired of living here. It's not all bad, but there's nothing here. Yeaaa I'd miss my fam but that's not enough, u know? I feel like I'd be happier elsewhere. I feel like I've outgrown this place along with the people here. If only it was that simple to leave. Can anyone relate ??
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I can relate. Only reason I can’t move is my child’s father won’t be able to relocate.

@Mimi Hopefully 1 day it works out to where he can. And yall can relocate 😊

Same !!!! , so I feel like I need to leave because I'm currently living with my parents but they want to parent over me as if what I say and do doesn't count but its my kid , I tried talking to them about it but to them it's like they know better since they raised 3 kids and this is my first . It's also only my income so I can't afford to but sometimes just feel like life would be easy and happier if it was only me and my son

I can. I often find i feel alone even when im socializing and feel like i should be somewhere else

@Stacey Ahh man. Yeah parents tend to think they know it all. Would you wanna move far away or just out their house ?

@Monique Time for a change

@Brittany I feel like far away because I feel as if I'm over everyone's energy and I need new scenery

@Stacey I feel u!

@Brittany due to bullshit circumstances i cant move. Even if i could my fiance and i dont have a working vehicle rn

@Monique Hopefully that changes soon😊

@Brittany im hoping

I moved from FL a year before I got pregnant and it was probably the best thing I ever did for myself. I hope the same dream can come true for ya’ll when the time comes. No family out here but sometimes the grass really is greener on the other side.

@Tabby Thanks ☺️

I always wanted the small town in the middle of no where life before my kid but now I'm glad I didn't move to the boonies. Once he is done highschool and off to what ever else he is doing Definitely going to be thinking about it more. For now this chapter is for him not me so will stay where it will benefit him most.

@Rebecca i live small town life, it has its ups and downs my favorite thing to say about living in small town is "one good thing if living small town is everyone knows you, the one bad thing is everyone knows you"

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I can relate. Upstate NY is not it and I just want to go. But I’ve done it before and it never worked out so this time I’m waiting to save money, have a job lined up, and a place to stay before I just up and move again. But it’s my goal once my lease is up !

@Lysha Exactly. It has to be done right. You know how people say "step out on faith"?? Uhhh no lol. Faith yes,but what about a plan. what about money, job, school for your kid and all that. All that matters too. We can't just literally pick up and go, especially when it's just US (the mom) as the provider

Come to Springfield! We can hang out!

@Denise I wish !

Feeling this.m. currently questioning myself on is it me that's unhappy with life, sometimes it definitely is, or is it the environment or situation. Being home has really challenged my relationship with my children which makes me sad but it's also done a beautiful thing for our communication because we've had to share and be transparent to make sure our foundation remains solid ... But I'm still ready to fly away far far away lol.

@Tanisha Righttttt is it me or my surroundings. Because if it's you, even if you change your surroundings you'll still be unhappy. For me, I think its a mix of both.

@Brittany I think so too. Then it makes you ask more questions like oka if I fix whatever is going on with me will the other things straighten out or will me moving to a different environment help me straighten me out .... Ladies where is the playbook I know somebody has found it by now

@Tanisha truly!

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