Anyone else?

Was best friends with another mom I met through here for almost a year. She was my twin. I felt like we were soul tied and meant for each other. Talked all day everyday. Once she had her second kid she completely ghosted. I’ve tried reaching out multiple times just to see how she’s doing and letting her know I’m thinking of her. I sent her a message a month ago saying I love / miss her so much and I don’t expect much but that I thought she’d at least respond when it came to my son and that I genuinely care about her kids. After that she stopped sharing location with me. Long story short I never got closure. I don’t know what I did wrong. She never responded again. Just opens my messages It’s been 2 months since I heard from her and I’m still struggling. Sometimes I still reach out but I just get left on read. My heart hurts. I feel so alone without her. Anyone else ever experience something like this?

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Maybe she's suffering from post natal depression? Or as harsh as it sounds, maybe she didn't feel as strongly about your friendship as you did in the first place 😕

@Rachel it’s not harsh, just the truth. I think I’m too much for people. Any soul typing friendship has gone to shit.

Not to sound horrible to you or anything but I had something happen once where I met a girl around the same age as me & we had a few things in common, so hit it off quite quickly & formed a nice friendship. The only thing that I didn't like was that after 2 months of knowing each other, she was calling me her best friend. Which was sweet, but I didn't feel like we knew each other well enough to be calling each other our best friends. She even bought me a charm for my bracelet for Xmas that said best friends on it, which, again, was lovely, but we had known each other for 3 months by that point. Do you think that maybe the girl feels like it's a bit too much too soon with your friendship? I'm not trying to be horrible to you at all, but I'm just trying to find a reason for it? X

@Rachel so we were friends for almost a year. The friendship felt mutual cause she said she’d go crazy without me and called me her bestie/ I love you first. She’d send 5 min long videos talking about her day / ask about mine.. I obviously have the same feelings. When I say daily, it was daily. Even if it was just a quick check in. It truly feels like a blindside.

@Rachel also you’re not being mean at all. I really appreciate an outside perspective and a possible reason.

Ok, so it does sound like it was a mutual friendship then. Maybe she's struggling with now having 2 children & doesn't want to admit it to anyone 🤔

This has happened to me and to be honest, it was because they found someone they liked better. They would never say that, easier to say nothing. Focus on self-love until someone worth your time comes.

@Rachel the relationship was so natural and we knew there was no judgement. I think her ex fling came back into her life. This girl ghosted her 2 times and I had to pick up the pieces both times. She knew I supported her in any way. I would’ve supported her relationship.

@Jessica 🩷 i honestly started to wonder this cause I think her ex fling is back in the picture

In that case, it's her loss. I'm sure you'll find someone who is even more worthy of your time & friendship x

@Maria I’m not sure what that means

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