Envy

I envy those who "weren't even trying" & those who get to experience the element of surprise. I'm jealous of the friends who got to plan when they wanted to start having children and how many and I'm sad that infertility has robbed me of my friendships, my career choices and who I was.
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All completely valid feelings. The negative feelings do get better with time. But they still find their way to creep in every now and again.

All very valid feelings! I used to get really annoyed at 1 of my best friend who new we were trying and kept saying how hard it is the long wait when she got pregnant 3 months after coming off the pill! I was already 2 years trying at that point. My other besr friend thankfully was really supportive and didn't ever try to say she knew the feeling. Its so hard to watch others having it so easy. Stay strong your time will come😊

You are right to feel that way! Those feelings come and go through time. I have friends that are able to get pregnant with no issues and they always say well what are you waiting for as if it is SO easy for me to get pregnant. I have distanced myself from alot of people etc just to protect my peace and stay positive through my journey. Its tough seeing people around you or people on social media etc pregnant and announcing their pregnancies while we are struggling to get better but it will get better with time

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