Anyone have literally no mum friends?

I just feel really lonely some days? I’m 30 and a normal person with a two year old. But for some reason I can’t seem to meet anyone with a kid who wants to hang out… everyone seems busy or already has their friends? I feel a bit sorry for my son sometimes. Does anyone else feel like this? I dunno if it’s a London thing cos my friends who’ve moved away seem to have found mum friends. I feel like I’m the only person with a kid 😂
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Hi, I’m the same 😏. My friends live in other countries so I have no one here. I thought downloading this app would help me find friends and having walks in the park with our LO. But till now everyone I write either doesn’t answer or answers short and isn’t interested having a conversation. Feeling very lonely 😕

I do live in London and got few mum friends. Best opportunity to make mum friends is to go to classes in my humble opinion. Met my son's best friend and mum during swim class and made some other mum friends attending the children's centre 🤗 personally it helped me a lot to made some mum friends, hope you'll find some soon. Ps: feel free to drop me a PM 🙂

@Astrid please can you recommend any classes to go

We went to swim classes with a private company. Just Google 'childrens centre + your bourrough', they offer different classes depending on your child's age. One is called stay and play for kids 0-4, we also enjoy 'natural thinkers' because the children's centre we go there for has a beautiful outdoor space where kids can water the plants & pick up fruits 🤗 these classed are completely free, you just have to call in advance ☺️

@Astrid thank you 😊

Hey, I totally understand this. Making mum friends is hard! And most of my friends from before live in another country. I’m also 30 with a 2 year old so feel free to message if you wanna chat

Hi 👋🏾 You're not alone I feel exactly the same way. I moved to London for uni from abroad and I always found it hard to find friends because most people already had their friend groups so weren't as interested. I'm 28 and most of my friends that do live here don't have kids so there's that disconnect. I've got a 2.5yr old and I am currently pregnant due in July and I feel very lonely as well.

This is 100% my life right now! Feel free to message me 😊

Hey lovly ladys happy Thursday I'm yasmin from Eastlondon mummy of 3 kids

lady's i own a travel business its a amazing opportunity we have. I'm hosting a event on 1st june in Central London going meet up with lovly ladys would love to invite you all this event is a 6 figure earner Coaches from usa will be there to so for more info DM PLEASE 🙏 have amazing day ❤️🌻🌷🤍

@Imelda @Joanna @Anna @Shanice ok good to know I’m not alone 😂 maybe we could make a WhatsApp group? X

Yeah I’d definitely be up for that!

I am up for that as well 😊

My only Mum friend is my Mum 😆 Sucks. I do hope to meet up with other toddler Mums soon but I'm nervous as my kid don't sit still so how will I hold a conversation anyway. Theirs might be the exact same and we'll just be two fussing Mums running in opposite directions of the park lol like hi and bye 👋🏻 😅 For real though it's an incredibly lonely and hard time and non parent friends just don't get it. Esp when they're guys. Really want to meet other women and single mums esp, as it's the worst thing having to let go of the father of your child 💔

I think London can sometimes be a bit cold sometimes or people are just so busy so you have to book ages in advance (which I find weird and I'm too disorganised for). Have found going classes/mum groups helps as others said and suggesting post class coffee. Also up for London meet ups x

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Heyy, it’s not easy to find real friends these days, mums or not! They’re either too judgemental or not serious! lol! 😂 😩 I’m here if u want a (real) mummy friend! 😀

Yes and it’s very depressing. I try and make friends on here then the chat goes quiet and I feel I’m being too pushy.

Feel free to message..would be an honour to have a fellow mum friend in London

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