Just want to vent.... maybe it's my hormones at the moment since I am pregnant

You guys I left my childhood state and moved to another state for my husband 8 years ago. It's been 8 years, and I can't stand it here. I hate it. I hate the environment, the weather, the way of life here is just not for me. I miss my state so much, and I keep telling myself I'll like it eventually but I just can't. On top of that I have my inlaws near who are nothing but stress for me. When I do need actual help they are completely useless and judgmental. I really tried. I made friends and everything but I just don't like it here. I am just so sad.
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Completely understand. I moved to our state because of my husband work. I hate it. I loved where we were . It was a great location. Both family had a 4 hour drive to us and now it’s uneven. Mine has 6 hour and his mother has 13 hours. My kids and I are suffering through allergies and the dryness of the atmosphere. I have dry skin and it sucks especially during this time! My skin feels like it’s burning when I am outside and when I wear long sleeves right now people give me stares . Wish they mind their business. I have to do this to my youngest too and the stares get worse with him. I swear it’s either he wear long sleeves or we deal with wounds from the scratching. personally I told my husband I want to go back and he says yes but he acts like we are staying here. Idk but i am very vocal about it. My friends here are the only upside to this place. Have you spoken to him about it?

Understand, I moved to the other side of the world, to be with my partner and start a new life, it's been 5 years, I realised its depressing here, weather most times so cold, gray raining, people are not friendly, you never know your neighbours as I do in my home country, on top of that my partner didn't perform his best during my pregnancy, I wish I could go back with my baby, but it's not realistic or possible:/..let's just be strong sis!

@Liset literally, I moved from a humid state to a dry state. 8 years of nose bleeds, and my skin looks like I am 20 years older. People here aren't friendly either or social. They are very to themselves. It's so frustrating. I miss the East Coast so much!! I miss the social life and cheerful people. Most people I meet here who are social don't even last they always end up moving because they can't take it. I've talked about it so many times before, but he was raised here, and he doesn't see any problem with this place. Idk 8 years! I feel like I should have already gotten used to here by now.

@Shirley babygirl Skyler I always have regret about agreeing to move here. So I feel the frustration. Not being able to share motherhood with my friends who I grew up with who are also moms is so upsetting. All I have are my inlaws who make me feel like a crap mom half the time with their inconsiderate comments.

I feel ya. I moved to AZ and now we are stuck here and I miss Colorado and my family

Girl I completely understand. I moved to Texas from North Carolina last year and I miss my family and friends and the beach and just everything that used to be home, so I totally feel your pain. Would visiting your home state more often help?

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