Lonely

i get that completely. my baby dad is only at mine 3 times a week and all he wants to do is sleep. i’d suggest in asking him to take “holiday days” off work for you guys to go out on a date and bond. being pregnant can get really lonely and you do need support from your partner whether they work or not. he needs to understand it’s hard for you and your hormones are everywhere so bonding time is extremely important . even if he can’t take holiday days off. maybe he can have 3 hours of time of doing something together with u before going to sleep or even after to garuntee ur spending time together xx

Try to find new hobbies or other things that interest you to keep your mind occupied. I’m on the same boat my partner works all day and I have no friends to hang with so I just try to find new shows or things to do to keep me busy while he’s gone

When he comes home leave. If he ask where your going say nothing. Don’t come back for a while. Do it everyday until he gets concerned. Then that’s when you tell him I am not your roommate and I don’t have to be here. If you want me here act like it. If there is something on your mind tell me. Ask for flowers and dates🌺 Demand your respect or he will walk all over you. If he complains about the bare minimum then you will know he doesn’t care.

I appreciate the messages ladies, any spare time he has he does it by occupying himself in the house where he wants to be in one of the rooms alone with no distractions even tho he has the other hobbies outside the home, I’ve suggested him taking holidays and he cuts it off saying he’ll save them when the baby arrives, I always suggest going on dates but it’s like he cringes at the thought, or never surprise me with a date idea it’s always down to me to plan? And yet when I do plan it never happens, I’ve gone through complications with my pregnancy where we both had a scare that the baby wasn’t going to make it, it’s knocked me about where I had to be off work since February due to the complications and pains, I even buy my own flowers he advertises to his family he buys me flowers, where he has only done 3 times in a space of nearly 2 years together, he laughs at me for buying them myself, I have no friends tbh and I think he likes the idea he knows where I am at all times