@Lotus 🪷 why would you assume that I don't love myself?
Get yourself out there, and when the life questions come up tell the truth. If they can't respect the Father of your little boy is in the picture then they don't deserve you or your son for that matter!
I think when they said you need to love yourself first they meant do what's best for you and focus on yourself so you are able to get over your ex and move on to better things ❤️
@Del Thanks. I just really hate that platitude which assumes that I don't love myself. I'm sick of seeing it online and hearing it in conversation. Humans are social creatures. I do so many things in the name of self love and still I crave affectionate, compassionate care and love from others. In the past 3 years I can't recall anyone telling me they love me. In the past year I can count the hugs I've had on one hand. Not saying it's anyone else's fault I'm just venting as I said in my original post. I don't want pity but I sure as hell don't need my feelings to be dismissed due to the (incorrect) assumption that I don't love myself. In my original post, I stated that we live really close etc. That any previous breakup I could go away and go no contact but now I can't. It's pretty easy to just spew out "love yourself first" when you don't take on board what I've already said.
That's completely valid of course, we definitely are very social and loneliness is actually terrible for people! Its one of the worse things to feel 😭 you deserve love!!
Hey message me x
You need to love yourself first 💕