Feeling unimportant

Maybe I’ll get some kinda help in this group but I’m almost about done reaching out when I get like zero help from anyone on this app too like idk what else to do anymore y’all ~~ Maybe I just need to rant to someone or maybe I really need some advice idk but for the past 2 ish weeks I’ve been feeling so so unimportant to the people in my life and around me. Like I’m putting in the effort towards people and I get nothing back. I ask for anything and I get ignored. My friend that’s home from college right now sent me a text and wanted to get together and when I said I’d love to she responded 2 days later and said great I’ll let you know if I have time. Like that’s just really made me feel low and now I don’t even want to hang out. The one I leave me baby with for 7 hours a day while I work I ask to just do this one thing for me before I get back so I won’t have to add that on my list of todos and I’m completely ignored (I’m a single mom and it’s like don’t leave diapers everywhere for me to clean up after when I get home) I’m just so tired of being/feeling so alone but I’m also so tired of feels like I’m putting in my all and I get last place for everyone else. And I just feel like no one wants to do anything with me or talk to me or anything since (and before too tbh) I had my baby I just am so tired of being the last pick for everything/ everyone and just want to be important to someone for once
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I completely feel you. I give and I give, but I don’t receive shit back when I ask for a simple favor. It’s completely understandable and if you ever need someone to talk to you, I’m always here.

@Jenessa truly and idk if I end up doing sum wrong bc it good for a bit and then everything goes back to being bad again

It’s so difficult but you are the MOST important person in the world to your baby. You will always be important, have you tried going to any playgroups or library story times? I know it seems like just one more thing to do. But I found a few play group things around me and 1 I go to and it’s awesome. My son plays with the toys and watches the kids while I drink coffee and chat shit with the other mums! Also when I get out of the house it doesn’t get messy from us being home! If you need someone to rant to, you can always message me x

@Austin it’s not your fault, it will never be your fault.

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