I try to talk he just hasn’t been a good listener most times, he just makes me feel bad and starts talking about what his problem is with me. Just forever pointing fingers basically. We did some pastor counselling but nothing consistent as our pastor is very busy :( the love language thing I try to bring up and it kinda plants seeds but he only changes when he wants to I can’t necessarily speed it up. I would try fasting with prayer but I’m pregnant so I don’t think that would be good for baby. He’s been coming around though slowly it’s just painful when things happen obviously
Oh ok I see. Definitely don’t fast while pregnant. Is your husband saved? It sounds like he isn’t but continue to pray for him. Do you guys go on dates or have one on one time? Sometimes that’s what’s missing and having those conversations while on dates can definitely have a bigger impact than on a regular day. When you pray, do you go into warfare as well? Cause sometimes the enemy uses differences in how people show love to draw wedges between spouses so even though you pray, you also have to pray the right prayers and ask the Holy Spirit to show you what’s going on in your husband’s heart and spiritually so that you can address those things in prayer as well.
Have you spoken to him? Talked about love languages? Maybe fasting could help a lot as well or maybe counseling with your pastor.