Disappearing

Erm....I wouldn't disappear. I'd tell them I'm going on holiday alone for 3 days Why do you not trust your boyfriend with your toddler? 😭

@Ella I do I just dnt even wanna let them know anything where I am or where my toddler is so if I leave my son with his grandma or a friend I won't feel obligated to even tell them my where abouts...I just wanna pack us up and leave and cut my phone off...my boyfriend works on weekends so I dnt even wanna have to make arrangements around that...so when I mean disappear thats what I mean my older kids are 18 and 17 they can manage I would just tell them I will see them in a few days there is food in the fridge call grandmother or boyfriend if there is a emergency and your brother is ok

Sis!!!! I hear u!! 🙌🏾

I’m just not understanding… what’s the purpose for you? What do you get out of “disappearing”? Do you want them to worry and think the worse? Like you want to see if they miss you or report you missing?

@Mary I think you are confused by the word disappearing as moms we are always worried about the household and the folks in it and we need to get away from that to have a moment to care for ourselves mentally and physically and it only takes for us to disappear and be missing in action for those loved to understand she has reached her mental capacity load!! I will be in touch but very limited no child understands needing time to themselves my teenagers still knock on the bathroom when I am in it this is the joys of motherhood...expressions from moms that say they just wanna run away this is exactly meaning I have reached my limited and need to reboot!!!

Do It!!! I have taken my toddler to my sister and dipped out ✌🏾 its refreshing

@Kaye finally a mom that gets wanting the mental space and taking it without asking because you have reached your limits!!