No longer wanting to talk it out in relationships
I don’t know if this is the beginning to an end but I am at the point where I don’t want to talk out anything in my relationship. So much disappointment and energy wasted only for the same conversations and issues to come back up. I remember always wanting to talk about EVERYTHING. Now, I don’t have the energy because big issues aren’t changing. Been hanging on to familiarity. Been together for over 10 years. We have a child now who also gets my energy 😅 have you experienced this?
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Going through this now . It’s like the roller coaster that never ends. I told my husband I want out and I was not happy. Two days later he tried love bombing to the point I was feeling violated and suffocated . He didn’t hear a word I have been saying for basically two years . Then same things over and over
Yes, it's been a couple years that I've been feeling that way
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I have, I feel you and can relate. We are currently trying marriage counseling, which seems to be helping us somewhat (too soon to really tell); our main issue is communication (or lack there of on his part) in my opinion, which then causes the issues to resurface over and over again… somedays I am just over trying to get through to him, as a toddler mum just don’t have the energy to.. and on other days, I want to continue putting in the work for a new “normal” for us and something better for us as a family, especially for our child.. but it can be tough on the more difficult days to find that place inside me to want to keep on putting in the effort. Hugging you through this, I hope knowing you’re not alone helps you not feel alone in this, although I know it isn’t much- where ever your path does lead you, with or without your partner, I wish you strength and happiness.