People 🙄

Yep I had this! From about 38 weeks I was getting messaged everyday asking if she was here yet. Wheb everyone found out I had her, for a good 3/4 days straight I was constantly being messaged asking how she is etc. I’m now 8 days pp barely hear from anyone now! It’s crazy xx

@Ellie wow that’s such a quick turnaround, people are awful, only there when it’s exciting to them. it’s such a horrible feeling isn’t it, i’m only 18 so my friends have told me that they don’t hang out with me since i can’t drink 🤦🏻‍♀️ nasty people honestly. hope you and baby are doing well!! x

I was the same and then those same people that came flooding back just before the due date disappeared quickly after my son was born. It gives you a very good indicator of who your real friends are. Once your baby is here you will become a lioness and won’t care about anyone other your baby. Seriously don’t give them a second thought, if they can’t be bothered to give you their time, don’t give them yours. You will soon have a best friend for life. Xx

@Ellie Common story sadly x

Yeah sorry love I'm not saying you're gonna lose all your friends. But now you're going to be a mum your priorities will no doubt change. You can still go out and or enjoy the same things but obviously you have to plan stuff. Don't worry about other people just look forward to that lovely baby

I'm 19 with a 10 week old if you'd like to message me to talk about stuff. Even with friends who don't usually drink anyways it's been pretty distant. And even one particular coworker who was downright nasty to me has suddenly tried to become my bestie since late pregnancy and after he was born, because she loves babies. Just gotta stay true to who actually supported you throughout and who respects you now.

Oh hell yeah. I had a friend decide that I couldn’t go out with her because I was pregnant so I wasn’t invited on nights out, and then she messaged on my due date asking if I was in labour, continued for a few days and then once my son was born and a week old asked me if I wanted to go to a party with her if I could find a baby sitter😂😂 now he’s two weeks old she is back to being her flakey self

@Ryan sounds lush 🤣 jog on honey

Oh yeah! During my whole pregnancy only my 2 best friends and my mum have helped me through it yet suddenly everyone else wants to jump in I’ve set boundaries tho and my parents are helping me with those people who don’t understand how to respect that. I’ve had people I’ve not spoke to since before I got pregnant offer to be my birthing partner 😂 like what

@Yog best part was when she said if I ever needed a baby sitter I could ask her so I joked with my mum about her being free that night😭