i need a friend 😭🫶🏼

Trust me things get better , nearly 2 years on from the start of my pregnancy ; I’m a similar situation and wow is my life different! My girls 13 months & I’m engaged to the most amazing man and dad to my baby girl. Trust me it is out there , keep baby as your focus and everything will work out x

I’m a first time mom so don’t quote me on this lol. But I’ve been told that the first time you hold your baby in your arms it’s a kind of love that nobody can explain and it heals all of the pain and heartbreak that you’ve been through

Me too I had to cut mine off permanently because of the disrespect and i feel the same way idk how I’m going to raise my baby alone yet. 😭

thank you guys so so much. yes i’ve heard once my twins get here, my heart will be healed. i just can’t wait to hold them and have them here. i feel soooo alone even though i know people are here for me. we planned this pregnancy so how tf could this happen? i feel so dumb. & yes i also had to cut him off we have a no contact order he went to jail for family violence w me sooo i don’t need the twins around that. i just didn’t plan on doing this alone it’s so overwhelming and i can’t stop crying everyday.

Feel ya girl. My daughter's dad gave me $60 for an abortion so he could focus on his music career. It was me and her the first 8.5 years of her life. But I found that finding the positive in the situation no matter how small helped me get through it. Like I didn't have to agree to a name for her it was whatever I wanted. And I could do whatever I wanted with her. It was great. And eventually I met my husband who has treated her like his from the first time they met and we have lil dude on the way. It gets better over time. Which I remember hating it when people would tell me that but it all worked out in the end.

i really appreciate that!! & yes girl my bd is moving 4+ hours away to persue his acting career. i’m just like what about me and the twins? it’s devastating but i’m trying my best to keep pushing every day. mentally physically and emotionally. 🫠🫠🫠 & i do hope i will find a man one day that wants to help me raise them & be a every day daddy. bc i want them to have a every day daddy not just some every once in a blue moon daddy.