Am I overreacting?

Okay so quick story time. I am the default parent. Don’t really go out, don’t have too many mommy friends to go out with so I stay home. My husband is the opposite. His guys always go out and are always doing stuff they have their weekly poker games whatever none of that is a problem. I love that he can still hang out with his friends. What I don’t like is the fact that he STAYS out and doesn’t come home sometimes. Last night it happened. I have to be at work at 8am, I work at a hospital. He asked me last night can you take the baby to daycare before work. I am going to be out late tonight. I said okay no problem. But I wake up and I’m ALONE, no husband. I walk to the front of the house and look out the window NO CAR. Side note, when I did go out with my cousin for my birthday we stayed out for a couple of hours and he still hasn’t shut up about it! “Oh I thought you guys were going to brunch, u stayed out all day” blah blah blah I left at 2pm and came home at 8pm. Do I have the right to be as pissed off as I am right now? Does anyone else feel like this is disrespectful? Like how do you not come home? You have a wife and family bro?!?