What would you do?
Show your support
If he wants u to be less tired so u can have sex then he should do more to help u. Either way he shouldn’t expect sex just cuz he wants it
What’s he doing at home all day at these times of asking you for sex? Is he unemployed? Supposed to be working from home? When he initiates sex is he actually going down on you/other foreplay first to get you in the mood, or is he literally expecting to just stick it in til he cums?
Throw the whole man away
@Neena he works at the hospital and he works 3 days a week. When he’s home he just sits there and talks about having sex. He doesn’t help with the kids unless I ask. He doesn’t clean anything. So he just on his phone most of the time.
Fuck man why are us women so badly guilt tripped about sex during and after pregnancy I wish this would fucking stop! 😪🫠
I have done it …he wants but I am tired and I need to rest because I have a baby that needs me to wake up in the middle of the night …soo he can just wait when we can if not , to bad ! Your wellness is first then him!
He only works 3 days a week? Why is he only working part-time when he has a family with children to support? Instead of being a sex pest at home, why isn’t he out working another job or increasing his hours at his current one? Honestly, him constantly pestering you for sex would do my head in. It’s so unattractive and reeks of a sex addiction. You are not just a vessel for him to cum in. Absolutely appalling he was pissed at you for choosing sleep over sex. Just because he’s your husband doesn’t mean he is entitled to your body! The fucking audacity of men 😤 As another poster said, tell him to start pulling his weight and being a parent and maybe then you’ll be inspired to have sex with him.
@Neena its not part time I forgot to mention he works 13 hours a day.
Ok so he works condensed days, that’s fair. What’s not fair is that he has 4 entire other days to be picking up the slack and helping out. Most parents would love to be in that position so they can spend more time with their kids. But he’s just sitting on his arse on his phone and when he’s not doing that, he’s trying to pester you for sex? 🧐 You need to have a proper discussion with him about what he needs to be doing on those 4 days. If he makes excuses or nothing changes, start making an exit plan because nothing will change and you’ll end up full of resentment and he’ll end up cheating on you anyway and seems the type to blame YOU for his actions too.
@Neena I’ve had discussions with him. All he tells me that there are woman who would love to have a man that wants sex all the time. He also tells me that I’m his woman and I need to pretty much have sex with him all the time. Like he says I need to have sex everyday.
Jesus Incog, please don’t listen to his nonsense. What he’s said is extremely scary and borderline rapey. You may be his wife/partner, but you are NOT his property and it also doesn’t mean he can have sex with you whenever he feels like it 😵💫 I would be very wary of sleeping in the same bed as him, he sounds like he may rape you whilst you are sleeping 😭 Please be careful Incog, it sounds like you are in a volatile situation that can change any minute. Having sex everyday may be normal for some couples, but I imagine those men are the type who actually care for and pour into their wives to make her life easier. The type who protect and let her know she’s in a safe space. Certainly not ones who sit around 4 days a week doing fuck all to help and still expecting to have sex on tap!
It would depend. How old are your kids? What did you need to get done? I'd be annoyed about being woken from a dead sleep regardless, honestly.
I would tell him to fuck right off