Gender spoiled :(

I wanted to wait to find out the sex of our baby until I was with my husband and specifically told the dr’s office I wanted them to write it down in and give it to us in an envelope at our next appointment. They called me to tell me my genetic tests came back looking good (yay!) and then told me I’m having a little girl. I’m both so excited and so upset. Am I unreasonable for being upset? I already told my husband I know and he’s upset too (but not at me). I’m at work for a little longer so he won’t know until later tonight. Advice on how to salvage this to still make it special?
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I'm so sorry! That is such a crappy situation! You can always stop at the store and grab a strawberry cake and have that as a desert as a surprise. Or even go to the gender reveal section at Walmart and look around for things you might like. Or guy some girl clothes in the baby section to tell him.

You're totally allowed to be upset, it's a big thing to find out! Congratulations on your baby girl! I think picking up a pink cake or cupcake would still make it special to surprise your husband!

That’s a bummer if you guys had planned to find out together, it’s ok to be upset. Unfortunately you can’t I know now, so I agree with the other comments, make it a fine way to surprise your husband! When you see his reaction you will be able to be excited all over again together and it will still feel so special ❤️

*unknow*

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