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I been through it it was one payment tho honestly I’m still with him it did break me and I explained to him how I felt and he accepted this but it is classes as cheating …
I’m fine with pron like the free stuff but it’s the talking to them and paying for it ? I don’t get it! Hes so emotionally unavailable that he won’t give me anything back when I try and talk to him And honestly I don’t think he cares he will just do what he wants regardless of how it makes me feel 🤷♀️
I wouldn’t say it’s cheating…. He’d be better off watching Porn Hub it’s free… but anyway I wouldn’t say it’s particularly normal ( I’m not sure how OnlyFans works ) , have you asked him why he feels the need to this ? Are you not enough for him ?
Well I have said that clearly I’m not good enough… he says I am and we have sex a lot and if not sex I give him what he needs or wants He’s been working away a lot recently tho It’s just the talking to them that doesn’t sit right for me I’m not really sure how to get over it
So you have sex a lot so really he has no need to do this… if you weren’t having sex and he felt he needed to do it to please himself … I guess fair enough to an extend but even then I feel PornHub should be sufficient… Hang on talks to them ?? You can actually talk to the person on OnlyFans ? Are they local ?
Some of them are local yeah you can chat to them and ask them for what you want pis ect and they talk dirty with you I mean I feel so disrespected tbh And all he’s saying is it’s been a long time coming So to me that’s He wants us to split I’m not enough He doesn’t want to fight for us And he don’t love me anymore
I see… personally it’s not something that would necessarily bother me if I knew 100% he had no intentions behind it all … I’d be more annoyed he wasting money.. But obviously everyone is different if this has hurt you & you’re uncomfortable with it then I’d be honest & tell him… Erm… that doesn’t sound great… sounds like he has given up on you especially with the It’s a long time coming comment !! I’d ask him outright if he wants things to end .. then go from there
I have asked him I’m literally getting nothing back. He won’t tell me how he feels at all If he wants us to split nothing! But there’s been no apology and no efforts to fight for us 🤷♀️ so I suppose I have my answers I asked him not to come home tonight because I needed space he respected that and hasn’t come back Honestly feel like I would have a breakdown if I see is face right now I just feel so angry And worthless and just not good enough
Hunny! Don’t ever let anyone make you feel that way ! If he is going to refuse to talk about it then maybe he’s waiting for you to make that decision so he doesn’t have to…. Also, just being happy not to come home … shows his lack of interest.. sounds like you’re better off without him but that’s just my opinion … I don’t have all the context etc …
Sadly I think you might be right! I feel so bad for my boy Fuck! Why is life so difficult 😞
Sorry i didn’t mean to be so brutally honest but I didn’t want to Sugarcoat it…. I think the best thing to do is to speak to a close friend / family member who knows you well to get their advice & guidance … Unfortunately.. life can be a bitch & shit happens but I’m sure you’ll come out the other end stronger !
No it’s good honestly thank you! Yeah that never really works out well tho 🤦🏼♀️
Ugh! Porn….This is a major addiction that many men have to learn to overcome. It’s everywhere nowadays too. Don’t take it personal. Yes, it’s cheating and lusting over someone else. He needs help. Is he willing to change?
have yall discussed what you consider to be cheating? some couples are fine with porn, other couples think it's cheating just to talk to the opposite sex, and most are in between. is he going to cancel his subscriptions or keep them? and if he keeps them, is that a deal breaker for you? these are the things you have to decide between the two of you.