What would you do?

This man has been in my life now for almost a whole year. I thought everything was perfect.. almost too good to be true. Until I found out through social media that he has a teen daughter that he hasn’t told me about and obviously has no intentions of telling me about. He told me his young son is his only child. I’ve known this for months and haven’t mentioned it to him. He has no idea that I now about his daughter and I don’t even know if I will ever mention it. It’s getting to me now though knowing he’s lied to me and I wonder WHY! Why lie? Why keep it a secret? What else you lied about? Things were going really well, I’ve had moments where I’ve really felt like it’s just sex and it won’t last though. He’s 10 years older than me, but why keep it a secret? I’m finding it really hard to walk away but don’t want to get to a point where I completely resent him, because me knowing about this and not mentioning it is already causing us issues as it’s making me resentful… thing is I do think he plays part in her life, so obviously he lies to me occasionally when he sees her etc???? It’s just getting to me now comprehending that he isn’t the man I originally though he was :( he always boasts about how popular he is at work and how I’ll have to look hard to find anyone that dislikes him. I’m now trying to figure out is he has gaslighting narcissistic traits tbh.

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I’m sorry you’re going through this. I think you know what to do, be honest with yourself and confront him. If this man is capable of lying about this, like you said what else is he covering up?

I would leave him by ending the relationship Why exactly are u finding it really hard to leave? The man is a liar! And he ain’t lying abt something “small” he is lying abt the existence of whole human that he created. The man is literally lying & denying himself! Crazy work 🤯 how does he even function or operate on a day to day basis with so many lies & personas to keep up with. Ppl like that really scare me cuz he must be such a good actor! And u never no what lengths ppl can go to protect these lies! u seem to have very good discernment & u no this situation is all wrong! The young 20something yr old me would have told u to confront his ass with the truth and receipts before u make ur grand exit bt the 30something yr old is jus telling u to leave, honestly there isn’t even a need for u to explain why isn’t not working. He probably was just waiting for u to find out bt he knows exactly what his doing sis! He doesn’t deserve anymore of ur energy, leave now so u can protect ur energy fr