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What are some reasons why you feel like you haven’t made any friends or a forever friend ? I’ll go first… Bc my kids are older than most at my age 34 (even though I have one one the way I still find it hard)
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Good Morning! I haven’t found someone who is consistent.

@Jenalee I can def relate to that as well 😔

Haven't had my own friends in forever, and now I never seem to feel good enough/liked, so I have a hard time putting myself out there. Also, a lot of the apps and groups seem to be younger/newer moms. I am 38 with pre-teen and teen.

@Jamie i totally understand. It can be hard…rejection is real…I just hate that sometimes things could be going well and then all communication stops 🤦🏽‍♀️

@Bri ✨ Exactly, and then you're left with utter confusion as to why.

Because I had to move across 3 countries and 8 cities in 10 years.

I think it’s because I don’t party or drink or smoke

Too “in the middle” with my personality, like I’m too bougie for the “ghetto ish” too ghetto for the “bougie ones”😂 I’m not really quick to shade people when I first come around I’m kind and welcoming before anything. But I also have a loud, silly personality when I’m comfortable. Like I don’t wanna be confrontational if I don’t have to be but I’m not opposed to being confrontational if I need to be. I guess to answer the question I haven’t found people who truly let me be me fully you know ? Like I have to hide parts of myself to be around people. It always gets back to me what people really think about me(behind my back) so it’s hard trusting people and he’ll even speaking to people.

It's hard finding friends that are consistent. It seems like I'm always the one reaching out and texting first and it seems one sided. I don't want any friendships like that. If I had a couple of friends that showed me the same consistency I would be satisfied.

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