Broken 💔

First of all, I want to say sorry that you are feeling this way hun! But I believe, the at you and all had the best intentions when having a baby with this person. We trusted them but perhaps we were blinded by love and fake potential and it is okay. Be strong and just be the best mom you can for your children. They will see the truth when they grow 🤍🤍

Following because I'm also wanting to know.

Children need love and support, not necessarily “mother” and “father” If your husband can’t be the father they deserve, you become the mother they need

Following because I blame myself daily and can’t forgive myself

Start by loving yourself first because that’s the most powerful thing when you love yourself you won’t tolerate whatever he puts you through cause you know you deserve better

So many of us in the same position. Just know that you're not alone If I had a time machine there's so much I would do / undo. Here if you want to private message me as going through it too. Same goes for anyone else on here. It's not easy and it's so isolating. I've got 2 narcissistic fathers. One is father to 5 of my children youngest being 7 and we are going through court. I've got some respite until Jan.. the other is father to my 20month old who's had no involvement now he wants it and he's being nasty and controlling. Also going to court (tomorrow!) And they're both in contact making my life difficult. I feel you...

Girl I have been doing the single mom thing on and off for 12 years I have 3 different baby daddies and the third one just filed papers and didn’t even put my child’s name right on then but wants 50/50 and still pay no child support.. I know a little how it feels but I told my boys that I can be their dad too