Toxic Relationship
My partner has been treating me poorly ever since I fell pregnant with my first child. Things got better once she was born and then got very bad once I feel pregnant straight away. I had the second baby only a few days ago and we are fighting all the time.
I told him I want to leave and he is saying that I am not going to take his kids away from him. What do you do if your partner isn’t letting you leave because he wants his kids with him?
I do not trust him alone with them as he gets angry easier. The eldest will try and roll away when he is changing the nappy and he will loose his shit and grab her hard.
If at any point you don't feel safe, you are well within your right to leave with your children. Although it does depend where in the world you are, as different rules/legalities may apply. You do however need evidence later down the track especially if you're gonna want full custody of your children, do you have any proof of the toxic abuse? Whether it be verbal, mental, physical, financial, etc? Text messages? Recordings?