I wish I had a real man

I wish I had a man that could actually help me and be a good father. I'm basically a single stay at home mom caring for 2 kids (my husband and our son). Son is physically abusive (he hits, bites and throws things at me) and feel like hubby is mentally abusive. He ignores me, fights, and makes it seem like I'm always wrong. I'm so stressed and done... I'm in tears all the time Including right now

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Girl, I get it I've been there. But you need to correct the behavior you son is displaying right now or else he'll do those things at school or with his wife. At the end of the day your his parent not the other way around. I hope your situation gets better soon🫶🏽🫶🏽

Im so sorry girl. I understand what your feeling. It was a bit like this with my husband our first year of marriage. Granted his own dad was a POS, so i had to really be patient and practically show my husband how to be a man. Which was painful! 🫠 Sounds like you gotta get la chancla out for your son though and correct him. I know it can be so discouraging cause you want you may want husband to help with the discipline, or step up and go dad mode, or you may even be afraid to discipline, but we cant always wait for our man to be the man we need him or want him to be. Our little ones dont get any younger and you gotta put a stop to that now. Wipe those tears, take a deep breath, drink some water, and try again. 💚 Dont be afraid to be firm. Be confident in yourself. Don't let yourself go. Don't give up. 💚 your little one needs you and needs that guidance and correction.

Does your partner physically abuse you? Where is the baby picking up on these things.

@Amber I agree with this on correcting that! And I’m so sorry you’re going through this

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