Cruel, hurtful and manipulative

My MIL is all of the above. She consistently causes drama for no reason, her texts are absolutely vile, she's hateful and so narcissist. I've put up with her behaviour for over 10 years for the sake of my husband, but now her attitude and actions are overspilling towards my baby and I am not having that. Has anyone gone no contact? How has it impacted the rest of the family? She seems to have successfully turned 50% of the family against us with her lies and I don't know how much more I can take! My husband is so hurt by her and is standing by my side 100% as he can see her for what she is. The trauma she has caused him in his life doesn't bare thinking about. I needed to get this off my chest, I am just so hurt and angry by it all 💔💔💔

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Do it !!! It's the only way you can teach her a lesson and maybe she'll change her ways eventually , sometimes they never do but we've cut complete contact more than once in a situation like that but glad your husband is standing up for you

Choose your peace. Make a decision to protect you and yours. Not out of malice or wanting to punish, but to choose a better way forward for your family. Don’t be vindictive about it. Just don’t engage and don’t respond. Trust me, everyone will soon see her for who she is. Once she doesn’t have you to dump on, she will work through the 50% who have turned against you. She will dig her own grave. The beginning will be hard as you want her to be different or to defend yourselves. But with time, you will gain headspace and find peace.

We’ve had no contact for months but my partner will always side with her and we are on the verge of splitting up because of her vindictive ways. She too has turned the family against me and I’m not welcome at anything now so I’ve stopped my lo going there too x

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