Girl this happened to me but I let it slide because I was pregnant with my little girl, for it to happen again on several different occasions after I had my baby, wasn’t only just one girl each time either it was a handful of different girls each time!! I constantly overthink it even to this day, I don’t know if the feeling ever rlly goes away to be brutally honest, you just slowly overtime just think about it less & less but then when u remind yourself of it it takes over your brain & moods all over again😢😢if your ever looking for a mum friend or a chat at any time I got u girl💕I’ve been in the same boat so no judgement ever xxx
This has happened with me we have broken up it’s been about 2 months best thing I ever done. When I wasnt pregnant I forgiven him ( he cheated 3 times) when I was pregnant I forgiven him (he cheated 4 times) but after having my lg I forgiven him about 3 times before I thought your doing it to our baby now I don’t want her to grow up thinking it’s okay to accept being cheated on when she’s a young woman.
I’d dump him. I don’t think this is a good idea. You are only young and you will have the energy in due course to push forward.
I know it’s easier said than done but girl leave!! No way on earth would I ever tolerate this ESPECIALLY whilst pregnant. You have a child with a boy that thinks it’s okay to lie and cheat what kind of example is that going to set for your child 😢 don’t ever settle for less than you deserve it will be the best decision you ever make it might not feel like it now but you are clearly to good for him. Your child is going to grow up in a broken home if you stay because as much as you try to forget about it you never ever will and it will always cause problems
I know it’s incognito but it’s better if we talk privately ❤️ I fully understand how you feel 🫠
Give yourself a break, considering he will do this whilst your pregnant with his child is a major 🚩 Would he have continued if you didn’t find out ? I think so Would he have gone further if she allowed ? Probably Are they both immature ? Yes Wants to marry you but shows you disrespect , did he want to marry you before the baby came ? Sounds like he wants to keep you close so he doesn’t embarrass his family. Is he a good dad ? Like more than the basics ? Sometimes we waste time on a boyfriend, worried about the what if’s , when our husband is out there somewhere who will treat you and your little one with respect X