Second pregnancy what are you doing differently

Hey all going anonymous as under 12 weeks, this is my second pregnancy I know a couple of things I want to do differently (bad birth so C-section) has anyone else got anything they plan to do differently second time around?

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I’m considering a VBAC (elective) but liked the organisation of the elective with my first. So stuck on what to do 🤷🏻‍♀️

Considering a home birth this time around!

I plan to get an epidural asap 🤣

Honestly the things I'd do differently can't change!! Water birth (been recommended iv access in case I lose blood again) and no hospital stay but that depends on what happens. Out of my control unfortunately 😂 Although I will be lessed stressed over feeding hopefully 😊

i love this question! so interesting to hear others responses. i’m also thinking about a vbac. i had a emergency c section the first time and was an overall traumatic experience. this time im going to decline the hormone drip and i may consider getting a doula as well.

With the pregnancy doing an intimate gender reveal. I think I'll be less stressed this time round as I know what to expect. Will be packing a lot less in my hospital bag. I think there will be more things just haven't got there yet

Oh and I'll stop looking at apps this time around. I'm glad I don't know what size fruit we are this week haha