Testing negative

So my missed miscarriage all started back on the 18rh of September. Today the 21st of October I finally tested negative. The physical side of it is finally over. I thought I would feel a way. I don't. I still feel just as awful as I did. I'm waiting for a counsellor to make contact but the waiting is hard. I know I will get through and move forward but I feel so stuck. Today the nurse told me I could start trying again now. The thought of that seems so so far away. What happens now?

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I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I don’t have the answers. I just know I’m hurting right here with you. I had a d&c this past Thursday. I feel so lost so empty. I have so many questions. I just want my babies back. I’m sad to hear it hasn’t gotten better for you. I’m interested in how counseling works for you. I’m sending love and warm hugs.

What helped me was to mourn the loss, I had a ceremony. I felt the pain and then one day I just felt ready to move on. It’s one of the hardest things to experience, first you focus on the physical aspect of healing your body, and then you also have to mentally heal.

I’m currently having a miscarriage I’m heavy bleeding, clotting and cramping is severe but I’m okay I’m pushing through. I’ve an early scan in few days to double check what’s happening on the inside but I feel like utter rubbish. This would be my first pregnancy and miscarriage. I was so excited for everything but my question to the hospital staff was “what do my periods start regulating normal again.” And I think that’s my main question because I want to try again. X

You grieve and then you heal. I'm sorry you are going through this. I had a missed miscarriage too. It is rough. Focus on taking care of yourself for right now.❤