Only child?

Am I the only one who doesn’t want another kid. I absolutely love my baby but I literally just cannot picture going through these stages again at any point in life. Like mentally it’s a hell no, and people love to ask when are you having another one? Like damn I can barely pee without this one screaming 😂leave me tf alone. Ugh anyway, don’t come for me I’m super grateful for my sweet girl. Just venting about not wanting another baby especially since people love to pressure and mind other women’s uterine performance.

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Yep I'm in the same boat. The thought of another one fills me with anxiety and dread. I love my daughter more than anything but I knew instantly I was one and done

same girl. When i tell ppl i’m not having another kid they like to say “that’s what everyone says” but I can’t imagine going through this again. I love my baby but another newborn stage and breastfeeding again 😭😭😭

Definitely not alone. I love my son to death but the high risk pregnancy, his birth (extremely traumatic for me), a month long NICU stay, and having PPD/PPA makes me never want another one. Plus, kiddo needs me earthside and present. Me pregnant or him having a sibling would get in the way of that.

Ladies thank you so much for relating! I can’t tell you how reassuring is

I wanted to have only one but we got twins haha I grew up an only child and it was the best

@Stacey 🇵🇸 this is so reassuring because people are like “yOu wAnT hEr tO bE aN OnLY cHiLd? And I’m like bitch yall gonna raise them?! Stay up with them??

Exactlyyyy. I never understood why people even care? I’ve been asked so many times if I was bored coming up as an only child and they’re always so shocked when I tell them no. I got to play with my own my toys when I wanted, I got my mothers full attention all the time, I slept uninterrupted my whole life lol The list could go on and on. I love that you’re getting the choice to have an only!

haha forreal 😭😭😭

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