Tmi sexual issues
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(2/2) and enjoy the moment for what it is! If you have to fantasize about someone do it 😂 but try to not be mind blocked or that really will dry things up quickly!! Try new positions, whatever makes YOU feel good and it will probably turn your partner on too using him to get off instead of just the other way around! Hope this helps!!
@Rose I appreciate your advice I really do but it don’t seem like he’s even interested in me. Right now I’m a SAHM. So he comes up with excuses as to why he’s not in the mood when I am. His stomach hurts, he’s got gas, ect. My ex husband was a porn addict as well so I’m starting to take it personal like it’s something to do with me. Is it wrong I want to be desired and to be the only one my guy wants to look at in that way? Now I’m feeling like it’s wrong for him to only look at me in a sexual way. But I don’t look at men that way. I mean sometimes I wonder what they’re packing but it doesn’t turn me on so much I need to get off.
Porn is an addiction and it has nothing to do with you girl. It does sound like you guys are in the roommates stage and porn is just going to make things worse. If he is worthy you need to have an open talk about your feelings. My husband and I watch porn occasionally and we have a few rules. Its just a video and nothing else for us. It doesn’t affect our sexual life at all but we worked on this for nearly 7 years. Men are so visual and my husband told me many times that it just a quick “nut” if Im not available and honestly I feel the same way. Sometimes Im not in the mood and Im not going to do anything just because I have to so I couldn’t care less how he chooses to please himself. If your husband was already a porn addicted you might even need a couple therapy to help out girly
Me and my partner experienced something similar about a year ago. We just went thru this really weird patch of not being turned on by each other and rarely having sex because we weren’t on the same “schedule” (he worked full time I was a SAHM so right off the bat I was overwhelmed and tired and so was he) I believe what this is called is the “roommate phase” It’s sometimes hard to get over but this helped us, we started trying to date again. I’d do my best to get all dolled up and look pretty just to kind of be flirty. Or I’d literally flirt. And ir sounds crazy but sending a frisky text or randomly touching him. And in return I noticed he started stepping up around the house without being asked. (Another good tip is to figure out both of your love languages to help figure out how to show your partner you love them without sex) My partners was physical touch and mine are acts of service. Also when it comes to physical intimacy, my best advice is to turn your brain off (1/2)