Need advice

Alright mommas I need some advice. Last night I texted my dead beat baby daddy from a texting app (he had my number blocked) to be petty honestly and let him know that his child was so happy and thriving and so we ended up texting a little bit more and this morning I had let him FaceTime with her and now he wants some pictures of her and idk if I should send him some or not. If anyone wants to see the convo I can send it via message. But this man has belittled me so much when I was pregnant with our daughter and has said the most horrible stuff and idk what I should do
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Don't do it. Im.in a very similar situation. My daughter is a bit special needs. & needs constant attention. My BD (ex husband) left when i was prego & for another girl pregnant with twins. He asked about my baby for the first time in 6 months. Just bc hes all of a sudden calling & asked about her don't give him the right to even see her.

Honestly if you just wanted to be petty you should just ignore him, the way I see it he doesn’t want anything to do with her because if he did he wouldn’t have your number blocked & would have reached out first

@Brooke im in a similar boat and agree. dont drop everything for him sis

Honestly, I know Hoe it feels to want your child’s father to be apart of their life but if he wanted to, he would have. He wouldn’t have just pretended she never existed. I’d just say take things really slow and keep it extremely formal. Don’t talk to him 24/7, don’t talk about your personal life, only talk about the baby

To be honest you probably shouldn’t have messaged him because then he thinks he has the right to ask for pictures. He proved that he doesn’t want to be apart of your daughter’s life by blocking you so honestly it should have stayed that way.

I’m confused why text him to begin with, then continue the conversation and have a FaceTime :? You probably shouldn’t have done that if he’s a horrible person and you don’t want to send him pictures… I guess just ignore him but don’t contact him anymore if u don’t really wana talk to him or let him into her life 🤔

Babe if your having doubts don't do it and be honest with him and tell him why if it starts an argument from his side due to his lack of understanding then .. you have your answer why you left his dusty ass! X

I know he's your daughters father but that moment of weakness could cause you more heartache than good. Trust you instincts and delete him don't talk to him he's petty and sounds like a horrible guy sounds like you are better off without him don't make the same mistake again for the sake of your daughter cuz these men are nasty and will probably try to use whatever he can against you be strong sis you've got this if you need anything I'm here ❤️❤️

If he asks you to then yes you should. Don’t do more than he’s willing to do. If he were to ever go to court you don’t want him to bring things up like that.

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