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Why do women only talk few times then go silent, women claim to want friends but then stop talking. What did I do wrong, am I not pretty enough to be your friend? Am I too fat? What is it? Why is so hard to make friends. Does anyone actually want a genuine friendship? No one at nursery speaks unless they know each other. So awkward.
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Agreed idk why it happens

@Jodie I find women hard work 😑

I can be quite easy tbh

@Jodie must be women near me 🤣

Idk where you are 😂

@Jodie I think they don’t like my blonde hair and because I get my nails done??

And your allowed to be you

@Jodie they must not like who I am. I’m not changing for anyone. I’ll just keep looking a guess. It’s just frustrating 😂

For real! You swipe and swipe and reach out and then nothing. I thought we all wanted the same things on here but I guess that’s not how it is. I was very confused and discouraged by it

I have it all the time they match with me and when I message they don't reply and I just think to myself why are you on this app then that's why I am slowly giving up in this app

Same!

@Daniella🦋🎀 yeah I always message them and I get no reply 😑

@Martina can be very frustrating i just feel like alot of people judge from a photo instead of actually getting to know the person it's good to give people a chance you never know you might find your bestie

Most of time now I leave people to reach out to me half of time still doesn't end up been a friendship

I don’t always get notifications of messages so could be a reason

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@Daniella🦋🎀 exactly!

I think I'm annoying people

@Helen and this is same as me but when I come one here I message back

I get it all the time

It's very disappointing. I've messaged a lot of ppl and had very little back from them. I know everyone is busy with life as I'm the same. But I would never ignore a message. Sad because we are all here wanting meaningful friendships and it's very difficult to even get to that stage

Same! I feel like this too

i feel the same. i don’t think it has anything to do with looks, people just get busy and preoccupied and for me it can feel like a lot of effort making conversations. i’m learning not to take it personally

Don't take anything personal, it's not about you!!! Please don't think any of that I have genuine friendships however I'd like more to be in the flesh, coordinating playdates and what not can be a headache sometimes and most of my friends are in another city or childless Overall, I had a realization (again) which is to try and enjoy your own company FIRST, everything else will be bonus I find making friends with other moms very challenging in general. Long term friendships are rare and require effort like any other relationship

Same!! 🤦🏻‍♀

I think they don't like me. Because I'm an Africa

Saaamme! My 9 yo joined football this year and unless your kid was a starter on the field it was like you were invisible.

I totally agree idk why it happens to me every time 😢

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