Is sex before marriage considered a sin if..

Yes it is still considered a sin. If you’re feeling convicted then God is trying to speak to you. Just continue praying and asking him for his help, he’s there with you 💘

Yes.

Yes. But I think if anything it’s better then having sex with tons of others. That’s what my husband and I did. It definitely wasn’t right and we should have waited. But I’m glad that it was with him instead of just other random guys. I think at this point the sooner you get married the better since there are kids involved and you plan to do it anyway

@Gabrielle i didn’t know any better back then but that’s one thing I’m glad about that’s he’s my one and only who took my virginity lol if it were a bunch I’d feel soooo shameful of myself

@BoyMom daily 🙏 the thing is we knew we’d end up together but still did it before marriage. But since I’ve gotten with him he’s actually gotten me closer to God than I was before I met him

Yes and it’s important that you repent (meaning stopping the sin). God forgives WHEN we repent. Until you are married, it is a sin since it’s fornication. Even if you’re engaged, it doesn’t matter. So if you are serious about God it’s important that you talk to your fiancé about stopping and that he respects your decision and that you also pray and make sure God is calling you to marry him. I hope your fiancé is also seeking God. With the right boundaries in place and the help of the Holy Spirit it’s totally possible to be abstinent.

@Cal the temptation took over

I am by no means perfect. I fully understand the temptation and how hard it is. The question was if it was a sin, so I have to answer based off of what scripture says. As humans we want to justify it so we can continue doing what we want, but that’s not God’s will for us. We have to repent and turn from sin. If you both believe you are meant to be together and are both believers looking to help sanctify each other and bring each other closer to God, then I would suggest getting married. That temptation isn’t just going to go away without prayer and boundaries.

@✨Wis 🇭🇹 thank you so much❤️ we are actually getting married this upcoming week🥰

Thank you everyone 🙏 this actually struck something in me and made me think a lot and in a different way other than mines

Okay that’s good. I pray it is God’s will and that He blesses your marriage. Blessings to you!

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Yesh I totally get that. I think to not feel guilty and all that definitely try to stop having sex until you get married along with trying to get married as soon as possible. You probably have a house together sleep in the same bed sooo if you can move to another room one of yall try to do that just so you are trying to not be sinful as much as you can

Yes. You didn’t know when you were having sex if he really would be the only one since you weren’t married. Like others have said, that is better than just having sex with random guys but it is still a sin

Imo the best thing to do would be get married asap. If you’re planning a certain kind of wedding just have two ceremonies. It doesn’t have to be a big expensive thing to make vows before God. The party can wait