Am I being childish

One of my friends went out for her fiance's birthday last weekend in my hometown, with my sister & brother-in-law, but didn't invite me & my husband. So I know how you feel 🤗

@Rachel it really hurts your feelings doesn’t it! I just think I’d never want to make someone feel left out it’s so sad people don’t care. me and my boyfriend are close friends of her and her boyfriend aswell and she invited a couple she met last month I was gobsmacked. I’m just going to take a step back and let her be it’s draining xx

Yes, I think I'm going to do the same. It's my own fault really for getting her to talk to my sister again as they had been friends but fell out for years. I thought if they started talking again, that we would all do things together, but I have been pushed out because I have a 2 year old, so I can't go out most weekends like they do, because my sister doesn't have kids & my friend has a 6 year old, so she just leaves him with her mum every weekend. You find out who your true friends are when you become a parent & she obviously isn't one of them, unfortunately xx

@Rachel let them be. When they fall out again and she comes running back to you don’t let her. It’s not your fault for wanting everyone to be happy you’ve just got a kind heart which some people don’t have and it’s sad. You’ll find your people and you won’t feel like a burden and it’ll come for me too for now we’ve got our babies and they’re our bestfriends❤️‍🩹

it's not their decision to decide whether or not you want to go. and them doing what you said without you is just rude regardless of you having a kid.

@Riley yeah exactly ! I feel like I just try and always make excuses for people’s behaviour because I’d never do it to someone so I try and figure out why they would. She claims she loves my baby so much to but how is that possible when you can leave me out so openly ? I had a feeling something like this would happen because when I was last with her, her mum brought up her birthday plans and she went dead quiet and said it’s just family but obviously it wasn’t because more friends went. It’s quite disappointing because it’s from someone you wouldn’t expect. She’s rude

yeah that's such a rude thing to do, she's clearly trying to do it behind your back.

Based on the last sentence in your post I'm not sure this girl is a friend I'd move on

@Aimee Iv chosen to not reply to her message since 4 days ago now because what’s the point in letting someone who’s supposed to be my friend make me feel like that.