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@Sílvia Silva I have family . But they’re not me & that worries me . Because what if they don’t know to do all these things? I don’t feel 100% giving her to her dad either . It’s such a worrying feeling, I cover her . I do everything always . But they’re all not me x
it's understandable. My baby's dad doesn't want her nor to have anything to do with her, and this worries me as well, because in case of death, I know courts will always go after the father, and definitely no other person is us, the mother of the child, as we know and deal with everything about them xx
@Sílvia Silva this is it . It’s exhausting to have these worries too . I’d love to be able to feel that she’s gonna be okay . I am starting up life insurance just incase . Atleast it’s one less worry I suppose xx
Decide who you want to take care of her should the worst happen, make a will and have those conversations. Definitely set up life insurance.
@Lydia definitely taking up life insurance . & thinking on a will . I had my sisters dad pass away & since then my anxiety has tripled about leaving my daughter with nothing etc . I want her to be in the best position x
feel the same way. Also, the thought of dying and my mum taking over my responsibilities over my child is a horrible thought, as my mum was and still is a bad mum, and I never want my child to go through what I went through with her, I have no one neither my child, I'm constantly worried about stuff, finances, etc, mostly to be able to be a good mum and to give her everything she needs and deserves, these thoughts and worries keep me up all night, I have such a bad sleep routine, if even I have one, it's just so hard I completely understand you and feel you xx