I’ve been going through this. But after labor. You do not get as wet as normal. I’m 12 weeks pp and just now started being normal again and it’s still not. Honestly we have to use lube and lots for it to be enjoyable for me….. I also don’t have the want for it as much anymore and sometimes have to have a couple glasses of wine just to want to. I think it’s normal hormonal isssues. A lot of moms I have talked to have gone through the same
@Hannah my husband thinks I just don’t love him anymore which is stressful
7 months PP here, it has nothing to do with how much you want him or want to be intimate. My husband and I weren’t able to have vaginal intercourse until a couple weeks ago. It helps to move at your bodies pace- whether you have a vaginal birth or a c-section, it’s a traumatic experience and changes all facets of your life. I have vaginismus, so we had to take it slowly even before I was pregnant. Taking it slowly and giving your body time to adjust is difficult, but none of what you’re experiencing is abnormal ♥️
I’ve had this issue before and to be honest it was all a psychological thing. When you’re extra stressed and tired it’s harder for your body and mind to associate when getting intimate. Might be worth it to talk to someone about what’s happening, might help your body and mind reconnect