Living together after breakup

so I’m a stay at home mom to a two-year-old and I am completely done with my fiancé. It’s been an accumulation of things and we’ve tried to make it work for some months now, but the relationship is over. I know because we were living together and I was a stay at home mom it’s gonna take a bit longer for us to go our separate ways. However, I’ve only been sahm for about a year and a half, I additionally have a degree in a field that I desire and always planned on going back into the workforce at some point and not being a stay at home mom for life. Once I’m able to secure a job I fully plan on taking the steps to move out and truly separate. But for now I’m just kind of lost on how to navigate while I have to still live with him and be broken up.

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You don't know need to know all the answers yet. Work on your next step which you said is finding a job. Take care of yourself and your child which you already doing. You got this!

Me tooo like trying to get out of an uncomfortable situation ,but just sticking it out for baby.

I recently had a conversation with my BD about splitting up and his a good provider, his pays for everything as I had a good paying job but we both agreed and were ok with me leaving work to stay at home with the babies. That was 4 years ago. Right now things are rocky and not sure how the relationship will work out but he told me that basically his house is mine and our kids. Given that, I told him that i wouldn’t have him move out right away because I’m not that kinda of person and even if we separated I would still have love for him and he would always have a place to go but I still would have a hard time with the break up being that I would still see him all the time and knowing that he would be with someone else. I don’t know how hard it would be to have someone your not with live with you and see them everyday.

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