Heartbroken trying to be strong

So I recently found out my boyfriend cheated on me. Literally 2 weeks before the babyshower, which he is all involved in, invites, favors etc everything’s got both our names. I obviously feel betrayed, never even crossed my mind of becoming a single mother. I don’t think I should let this just be. His family and friends are also invited and I don’t want this to ruin my special moment. But to be honest I don’t even know what path to take on this. It is really sad is happening during my pregnancy. Trying to be strong for my baby. I also needed to let it all out, thanks for reading.

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You are strong and don't let anyone stand in front of your joy with your child💪🏻🤰🏻love u mama

I’m so sorry this is happening to you. You never deserve to be treated that way, especially as you’re carrying his baby. I truly would not blame you if you chose not to include him in the baby shower. Being a single mom isn’t ideal, however you deserve someone who respects you and would never put you through that. I can relate in a sense, as my baby daddy left me at 3 months pregnant because he doesn’t want to be a father anymore. I hope you know that it will get better, regardless if you have tough days. Healing isn’t linear and it is more than okay to have sad days.

As someone who found out I was being cheated on when I was 6 months pregnant I am so sorry! I know the heart ache you are going through! But whatever you do don’t go back to him- it’s better to be a single mom than stay for the help- I tried that and i couldn’t make it work! Maybe just send everyone an email and say it’s still on but you will not be discussing why he won’t be in attendance unless they want to speak to your privately. And that you want to make it about the baby and yourself! You got this momma! Stay strong!

Stay strong and make the best decision for you and your child. Before I became pregnant…. Me in my bf/fiance with through a lot ….. but I loved him because the qualities he possesses….. so I did leave him for 4 months ….. NO CONTACT… and honestly during that time i did try to date, and hang out with people but they wasn’t him…. He held a standard with me that no one I met was holding …. So I apologize to him for embarrassing him on social media …. And we got married quickly flew to Vegas to do it …. Then immediately after I was pregnant with his 1st child …. I already had two of my own 11,7 …. But short story don’t let temporary hurt ruin your true happiness…. Set your boundaries and standards but also have realistic boundaries and standards. Mines has always been …. No outside kids, NO STD’s, NO guys… and Don’t bring your dirt home with you … Every woman is different so different standards and boundaries…. Almost 4 years together exactly on our baby due date lol

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