Anyone else more introverted and struggling with how much people know about your life, how much more people are messaging you ect… I want everyone to fuck off.
MIL constantly messaging if I need help, my mum the opposite and not talking to me about anything but talking to the rest of the family and then me hearing from the rest of the family, they know my due date, potential induction date, everything.. (my mum unfortunately knows a fair bit because she’s looking after my eldest) people randomly sending me names because they know I don’t have one yet. It’s getting tooo much and overwhelming. But I can’t tell anyone to stop because that’s mentally not possible for me 😭😭 I wish I could
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Oh fuck I needed this weeks ago! Time to change up my answering style!
Just ignore everyone and dont look at messages. Thats what at I did last time and this time round, I did what Sandrine suggested. All people know is baby is due end of october
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This is why I give diplomatic answers to people when they ask me questions about the baby/pregnancy. Nobody knows anything that's within my control. 'What's your birth plan' - to live. 'Do you have any names?' - we have options. 'What are you having?' We'll find out when the baby arrives I just never give straight answers. Try it.