Sex

Anyone else just super uninterested in sex rn? Me and my partner had it for the first time today since we found out we were having baby 2 and it was so uncomfortable, baby was moving about everywhere pushing my belly to the side and causing discomfort partner said it made him feel weird seeing and feeling baby move while doing the deed and after we finished it felt like I had a uti for the first hour and a half after but I’ve been fine since just achy … I’ve had no drive this pregnancy but with our first we were at it like rabbits I guess I’m just at a loss really cause on one hand I don’t wanna wait another 6 months to get some and on the other I don’t want it again any time soon anyone relate?
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I feel the same way. We’ve had sex a few times since getting pregnant but I don’t think I’m feeling it at all. I also don’t want to wait until baby is here to actually enjoy sex again, but I think it’s probably better to assume that’s how it’s going to go rather than pressure myself into having sex when I don’t feel like it! Luckily, he doesn’t mind…it’s more me worried about losing a spark!

@Lauren just saddens me cause at one point we literally couldn’t get enough of each other hence baby number 1 but now cause we’re having a hard time transitioning her back to cot she’s always in our bed so we can’t even cuddle anymore 😩 definitely feels more like roommates just lately and we always argue more then sex put us back on track just don’t want it to get to the point where it’s unsalvageable 🥺

I don’t think that’ll happen, especially since you seem to aware of it! I think roommate stages happen without people realising it. I’ll still eye up my man when he’s fresh out the shower and make him feel like a piece of meat, even though he knows that’s probably as far as it’ll go in the moment. I totally get how you feel though. We weren’t trying for long when I got pregnant, and I was so enjoying the regular sex, and now I don’t want anything to do with it

I think as long as you're both on the same page and communicating then that's fine. I'm sure you'll find the spark again in a few months time. For now you can do other things together, walks, brunch, hugs ... Sex is not everything in a relationship. Don't worry!

I think open communication is the main thing. You can still be close and intimate without sex. Be open with each other about how you feel ❤️

I have no interest in sex AT ALL. The second time we have done the deed since being pregnant my husband gave me thrush due to his undiagnosed type 1 diabetes at the time and it was itchy for DAYS and painful. Thankfully since then he’s been to scared to as he felt so bad about it 🤣

No sex here either. Really not in the mood this pregnancy 😂 just no drive at all!

I am uncomfortable so definitely don't care about sex. I also don't care to be touched in general. Your definitely not alone.

Quite normal. Why would we biologically have a high sex drive when we're already pregnant? 😁

Me and my partner don't have sex as much as we used to, I'm really un interested most of the time and don't feel comfortable when we do have sex due to my bump and worried something could happen to baby

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