Missing vibrator

My husband bought me a vibrator last month. I had mentioned the one I had died last year and we needed to get one lol so he followed through. I was looking for something previously ordered on Amazon and came across the purchase history of the vibrator... however, it showed TWO different vibrators purchased and delivered. Huh?? So I asked him and he seemed bashful. Figured the second one was a birthday gift? Well my birthday has since passed so I brought it up again and he says he doesn't remember where he put it. I've looked everywhere... no where to be found. Where the hell is this missing vibrator?! I don't understand. I can't imagine one would forget where they stored it and now I'm feeling uncomfortable wondering what the real story is with this. I don't think he's cheating, he knows he has way too much to lose-- family, money, reputation. So what other reasons would make sense?

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Damn I would sooo suspicious?! Was it delivered to your house? Try to remember the dates? And how would he forget about it ? Idk so many questions you know

& its 2 vibrators? Unless he uses them that could also be it

Both delivered in same package to our home. He doesn't use a vibrator to my knowledge. He doesn't like any type of touch around his butt actually. I've asked a few times now and he can't remember where the other vibrator is

Hmmm idk not that he is cheating but that would make me wonder how did he forget about the other one? Why did he lost it ? It doesn’t make sense lol

@Gemini it was definitely my first thought that he got curious and used one for himself!

He could be using it himself, but not necessarily on his bum

Well that would be unfortunate because I'm such an open book and wouldn't be bothered if that was something he wanted for himself, but what I don't like is feeling his answers aren't honest

Maybe he’s embarrassed to tell you ??

There has to be a story about what happened to it tho

Now I’m curious too lol 🤣

SAME. I need to know!

Idk 🤷🏻‍♀️ maybe he did loose it but I mean… how do you loose a vibrator? Even if someone has “too much to lose.. “ he can be willing to lose it. So he could have cheated? Idk I say don’t worry if nothing seems suspicious. Just ask him again and tell him it makes you uncomfortable. Maybe the kids took it?

@Julie no, no part of me would ever assume or believe he would cheat. So I'm left wondering where a missing vibrator goes and why it went missing in the first place? Our kids are under 4yro, they didn't take it 🤣 but trust me, I've thought of all possibilities and am just dumbfounded

Either you trust him or you don't. If he says he lost it then he lost it. It's not like he was carrying it around and dropped it somewhere. He stashed it away so you wouldn't find it so he could give to you as a gift and then forgot where. I used to do this allllll the time but now I have a reusable shopping bag I stash all gifts in. 🤣 Guys are pretty forgetful about stuff so I don't find this surprising. Another option is that maybe he wanted to get it for you to use on him and he has since become embarrassed about it but isn't ready to give up on the idea yet??

I don’t want to make you worried. But a few years ago I found out my ex was buying vibtators and other toys and giving them to other women 👀 in exchange for videos of them using it. Might be a toxic suggestion but I would go through his phone 😬 I hope that’s not the case

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