I'm curious if there's a correlation or if it's just something that happens postpartum...

Ever since having my now 2yr old I've had no sex drive. It never came back and I feel bad for hubby, I wanna try to fix it. Maybe getting off my bc will help?
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Tell your doctor, sometime birth control will do that to you so the doctor can give you something to help bring your drive back

@Desiree I didn't know they had anything for women to help that. Thanks! I'll talk to her.

I have Kyleena and still have a sex drive but every person is different on birth control. I know they have women libido enhancers at sex shops or you can talk to your dr about it like Desiree said. I hope you figure it out.!

Take some maca root 💕

@Megan I've tried maca root before with no real change besides aggravating my existing digestive disorder. 🙃

I suspect my birth control took my libido to basically 0. I thought it was my anti anxiety meds but once I was off the bc it came back to pretty much normal.

There’s lots of diff BC out there, even diff types of pills. Change it up and find what works and I highly recommend reading “This is Your Brain on Birth Control” to understand how you’re affected and the diff types. But it’s more than likely your bc. I wasn’t on any for a year and just did FAM but I know that’s def not for everyone.

It’s one of the only drives that increases the more you have it E.g hunger is kept at bay when you eat But s drive increases the more you have - best way to begin craving it again is to simply have it more often. I recommend planning it in x

What birth control you on? I’m on depo provera and my sex drive is very low

My sex drive was definitely lower when I had the implant x

Yeah I have a friend who lost her sex drive for years because she was on the pill. So could definitely be that. Could you swap to natural cycles / using condoms for a while to see if it gets better?

Birth control definitely plummets your sex drive.

I've tried various pills before baby, some weren't so bad a hit to the libido but could tell a difference when I stopped to try for a baby. I can't remember to take them with the toddler craziness though. After baby I was on the IUD and am now on nuvaring. My husband has agreed to get a vesectomy and is looking into the process through his work. But until then I guess I'm just still where I'm at.

I took queens love blend herbal tea from upfulblends.com and it balance my hormones and made me so horny and 💦🌊🐳 if you know what I’m saying…my natural lubrication was good before but the 🐳🐳🐳 was great…I been using upful blends since 2021 postpartum and it’s always worked…it is owned by a woman and she sells indigenous herbs from Mexico, Africa and South America…I started making chaga mushroom tea for my man and it’s good for detox and energy…anyway queens love blend is not for pregnant women but to help ease pms, balance hormones increase sex drive and nourish you with minerals and iron, it’s also a V steam too…there are natural ways to make that kitty kat purr again girl…I hope you find something that does, but if you have any questions you can chat with the experts on upful blends.com

Mine hasn't changed, I have higher libido than my husband but it's the body changes, back pain, and existential fatigue that gets me. Sometimes I'm just too tired physically lol

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