@Rachel you’re right, with this particular friend I always said ‘oh no worries’ when she would cancel or flake, if I could go back in time I wish I said ‘that’s really annoying you’re cancelling again because I have planned my weekend around seeing you’… which was true! I honestly think her friendship has left me with friendship issues and she has no clue about!
I wouldn't admit to planning my weekend around seeing someone, as they would probably love the fact that they have inconvenienced you that much. I would just tell them how annoyed I am.
yes I have trouble trusting people when being friends with them as well. it can happen with anyone.
Yes, I feel like this with most of my friendships at the moment. Like I said on another post, we need to stop normalizing not seeing people for weeks or months because it enables people to be bad friends.