I feel lost

So… I ended it with my babies dad last night but now I feel so lost and unsure what to do… We had been together for nearly 3 and half years and have a 4 month old together… He was as narcissistic as his family (mainly his mum typical) . I am living with my parents, but they don’t know that we aren’t together anymore as it happened late last night and I haven’t seen my parents yet because they are at work. What do I do now? I don’t remember what it’s like to be single let alone know what it’s gonna be like being single with a baby…..

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Hey!!! Firstly, it takes so much strength to end a relationship when you have a baby, so give yourself lots of credit for putting you and your baby first! It's not easy and it shows how strong you are already. You will manage. One day at a time, you'll get through it. Some days will be harder than others, but you are obviously a strong person and you'll find a way to make it all ok. Sending you hugs and hope,

Hi 👋 well done for having the courage to leave. Always always trust your instincts especially with people that show narcissistic traits. I was in the exact same position over a year ago now when I seperated from my husband with a 2.5 years old toddler and 5 month old baby. It is hard but you already have a better chance as you have family to support you. Most of mine is abroad. And honestly just take it hour by hour, day by day to being with. You will get there and most of all remind yourself why you made that decision. Mine just cemented the reasons why I did and how right I was. Better kids grow up in a single happy home than a toxic one with 2 parents and a distorted view of how a relationship should be.