@Zoe yeah deffo what can i do about it tho, like i just know he won’t go to therapy or anything like that but idk how long i can continue to feel like this
Sit down and talk about it. Tell him how it makes you feel. And what it makes you think about him. Tell him what you think will happen with your relationship if it continues. You never know, he might be going through something, so try not to attack him for it. Just have a conversation. Let him know you can’t carry on like it without at least knowing why.
@Jess i did as we had a baby free night last night so i thought maybe that will encourage him and still nothing so i spoke to him the morning and he went mental saying ‘things will change’ and stormed out the door for work if i had £1 every time i heard that phrase. it’s like each time he says it it gets worse😶
If he seriously doesn’t get help or take it serious personally I would leave him. He will just know he can do it again and again with no consequences. It’s also bad on your mental health long term when you deserve better. Hope you can sort it
Talk to him about a potential porn addiction, that’s what it sounds like. That’s when it starts to affect your relationship and it’s not acceptable in my opinion if he can do that but doesn’t want to be intimate with his partner