What do we think of this..

The other day my fiancé went to the store and I told him I needed conditioner & body wash & apparently he had already left and I didn’t tell him in time. so today is mine and my fiancé’s 7 year anniversary & he buys me a conditioner & body wash but added a scrub to it. For our 7 year, I just wanted a thoughtful gift. Am I being ungrateful?
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He may be doing it for a laugh and might have u something else that he may give u later xx

@Charlotte He said he hasn’t had time to go to the store and get me anything so it was a quick buy basically. Lol

Oh then I dont think ur ungrateful to be honest as he knew your anniversary was coming up x

I don't think you are being ungrateful at all, he knew your anniversary was coming up xx

You are definitely not ungrateful! You deserve thoughtful gifts! He should have given you more thoughtful! Like with online shopping there is no excuse to plan out something or do something special for you. If he wanted to he would.

@Charlotte even if he did it for a laugh that is not cool. Laughing at your wife is not ok. It’s like the wife of the heir to jet blue- super rich family and the wife does so much for her family- gave up her dreams of a dancer and she just wanted a vacation cuz she was tired and over worked and he got her an egg apron. He seriously thought that was appropriate. It’s like no!! Wives deserve so much more than fucking soap and aprons!! They deserve to feel loved and cherished and not laughed at with a stupid insulting presents! Your husband is your partner and if he laughs at your expense there’s some underlying disrespect.

Are you guys tight on money? Is it a gift of need? I'm all for practical gift giving. If finances are low.. do not go in dept for gifts.

😂😂 I’m sorry that it so funny I know it shouldn’t be but that’s such a man thing to do 😂 my husband got me gift when I turned 30 that was meant for when you turn 50 and I was crying laughing over it.

My husband is the same way. It hurts my feelings he’s not more thoughtful but then I turn around and realize, ok, he’s not just doing it to me. He doesn’t know how to give gifts. His parents had 5 kids including him growing up and not a lot to be enough. He never gave gifts before me and I can’t expect him to be a satisfactory gift giver now. “Love is Patient” -God help me.

Incog - what has he got you for your other 6 anniversaries? Does he normally get you nice thoughtful gifts for your birthday, Mother’s Day etc? If it wasn’t a joke token gift like ‘haha I literally got you what you asked for but for real, life has been busy and I’ve not had a chance to get you anything nice but most definitely will soon’ then I would definitely be upset, and of course you aren’t being ungrateful.

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